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Sve u vašem životu je za vaše dobro

Ego je čudan igrač u našem životu! Večno je pitanje da li je dobar ili loš, po meni još bolje do koje mere je od koristi a kada prelazi u štetu?

Ono što je najproblematičnije je što uvek pronađe način da nam podmetne sigurnost u ispravnost onoga što činimo i na taj način nas drži vezane u mestu.

Razgovarao sam sa klijentkinjom koja je prolazila kroz krizu narušenog prijateljstva, do koje je dovela pojava obostranih emocija. Continue reading “Sve u vašem životu je za vaše dobro”

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Krivica prečica za smrt

Danas sam sve obaveze uspešno obavio, i ponosan na sebe odlučio sam da veče provedem u miru, odmarajući se i praveći planove za sutra.

Hitan poziv!

Jedna divna duša me je pozvala moleći da hitno primim njenu kumu koja je došla iz drugog grada. Kancer, kritično stanje, van sebe su!

U takvim slučajevima nema umora niti prepreka, ima samo odmah i sada! Videli smo se u roku od pola sata.

U moj stan ušla je lepa žena srednjih godina. Energija u njoj skoro ne postoji. Sa njom je ušao crni oblah mraka i straha. Šta god da je pitam, suvišno je jer joj je smrt stajala iza leđa. Zaledio sam se! Šta god da joj kažem, sumnjam da bi je utešilo. Vidim joj u očima ogroman strah i ništa drugo. Continue reading “Krivica prečica za smrt”

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Darovima prirode do zdravlja

Nakon objave prethodna dva teksta izrazili ste ogromnu zainteresovanost za ovu temu tako da nastavljam da delim sa vama sve ono što je meni bilo interesantno vezano za spoljašnje uticaje, hranu i njenu ulogu u pomoći našem umu na savladavanju bolesti.

Ono čime se ja bavim i na čemu se zasnijvaju moja uverenja o zdravlju čoveka prvenstveno su bazirana na aktivnosti našeg uma i energiji ali ne mogu da zanemarim i spoljne uticaje. Continue reading “Darovima prirode do zdravlja”

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Kako da pronađemo svoj poziv? drugi deo

Nismo učeni da slušamo našu dušu, zapravo, često nas uče da je ignorišemo, da gradimo svoje živote oko očekivanja koje nam nameće društvo, naši roditelji ili drugi ljudi oko nas. Mi živimo na taj način, izgladnjujući našu dušu sve dok ona ne počne da nas poziva na neki svoj način. Možemo odlučiti da ne napravimo mesta u svom životu za to. Možemo ignorisati poziv duše dok on ne postane hitan, a mi depresivni, ili se razbolimo, ili nas neki neprijatan događaj izbaci nas poricanja.

Možemo naučiti da prepoznamo načine kojima naša duša komunicira sa nama – rekao sam jednoj učenici koja nije znala kako da prepozna svoj poziv. Continue reading “Kako da pronađemo svoj poziv? drugi deo”

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Kako da pronađemo svoj poziv?

Možemo li uočiti razliku između posla, karijere i poziva?

Posaoje, ono što radimo od “devet do pet” i od čega živimo. Karijeraje sistem nagrada i unapređenja koji je kreiran tako da nas motiviše da se ponašamo kako društvo želi; dakle, linearni rast plate, viši položaji, viša zvanja, unapređenja, veći društveni ugled i sve tome slično što naš ego i ljudi oko nas vole i odobravaju. Pozivje ono što mi iskreno volimo da radimo bez obzira da li nam to donosi novac i slavu; sam rad je nagrada, jer je “prirodan” našem biću i usrećuje nas makar od njega nemali nikakve “koristi”.

Koliko nas, može da se pohvali da nam je posao = karijera = poziv? Continue reading “Kako da pronađemo svoj poziv?”

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Šta je kriza života i kako izaći iz nje

Niko nije osuđen i kažnjen nekom izazovnom situacijom. Kriza u životu nije „kazna“ kako mi to zamišljamo. U krizi se možemo naći iz različitih razloga. Možda smo sami zaslužni lošim izborima, pogrešnim rezonovanjem i ponašanjem. Čak ni u tom slučaju kriza nije „kazna“ već logična, pirodno jedina moguća posledica. Veoma je važno da uočimo tu razliku, jer ćemo onda prestati da se osećamo kao žrtve i strepeti od neke više, zle sile koja nam šalje neku nesreću kažnjavajući nas za nešto. Univerzum ili Bog nisu neprijateljska sila od koje smo odvojeni i od koje treba da strepimo.  Continue reading “Šta je kriza života i kako izaći iz nje”

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Strah je jedini razlog neuspeha

Šta znači raširiti krila? Ja sam danas izgubila posao koji sam prestala da strasno volim, ali koji mi je pružao ugled u društvu i novac. Ja već dugo vremena želim da radim nešto sasvim drugo, puno o tome čitam i sanjam, ali još nemam do kraja razvijenu ideju niti konkretnu ponudu. Ako bih ja sada našla novi posao u industriji u kojoj sam komforna, da imam druge prilike i neku sigurnost dok ne iskristališem šta je tačno to novo što želim da radim, da li bi to bilo širenje krila? Continue reading “Strah je jedini razlog neuspeha”

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Duhovnost nije odlazak, već povratak

Duhovnost više nije luksuz života, već apsolutni imperativ ljudskog zdravlja i opstanka. Duhovnost se može povezati sa svim ljudskim iskustvima, ali ona ima posebno blisku vezu sa ljudskom kreativnošću i svešću o svetu oko nas, sa odnosima – bilo sa samim sobom, sa drugimaili sa transcendentnom stvarnošću, imenovanom ili neimenovanom, ali često nazvanom univerzum, Bog, božansko ili duh. Duhovnost se takođe može povezati sa percepcijom radosti i patnje, poštovanjem i predavanjem nečemu što smatramo razumnim osloncem života. Continue reading “Duhovnost nije odlazak, već povratak”

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Duhovni put je povratak u nevinost a ne u naivnost!

Svi ljudi tragaju za spokojem, za radošću i za nekim čvršćim osloncem koji žele da pronađu. Teško im je da odu kod psihijatra, ne zbog sreteotipa sramote, već zbog razloga što se ta struka pretvorila u puko prepisivanje lekova. Sa druge strane razgovor sa sveštenikom odavno je devalviran njihovom biznis prirodom i osudom svega što se suprotstavlja njihovoj materijalnoj pohoti. U njihovim redovima retko ko još veruje u Boga, nažalost.  Continue reading “Duhovni put je povratak u nevinost a ne u naivnost!”

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Ništa nije pravedno, nego tačno

Među onima koji uče od mene ima toliko izuzetnih ljudi da i pored toga što oni mene zovu učiteljem ja sam počastvovan da budem izazvan i učim kroz njih. Jedna od tih izuzetnih ljudi svratila je do mene na nedeljnu dozu provetravanja misli.

Hajde da pričamo o strasti. – rekla je – Sanjala sam da sam bila izazvana lepotom prekrasnog bića koje me je iskoristilo u slatkom zanosu i nestalo. Ostala sam sama na nekom raskršću, uplakana i sama. Odjednom se odnekuda pojavio crni ratnik koji me je podigao sa prašnjavog tla i odveo kući.  Continue reading “Ništa nije pravedno, nego tačno”

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How to Be Present Now?

I read somewhere that time is the greatest serial killer since we are completely occupied with its passage. In that obsession, we forget that the only thing that matters at the present moment is that. We forget that everything we have and what is worth living just and now is here. Our mind is responsible for the fact that our focus is always somewhere there, in the past or in the future, with concerns or desires.

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How to Find Your Personal Happiness?

I was at one concert, and I did not do as I expected. It was a concert of music I love, which I myself sing, but something else happened here.

On my travels through the shrouds of the world believed to have been looking for the world by miracle and enlightenment, but from a few places I brought peace and tranquility. For a long time, I needed to understand that I did not have to go somewhere to get what I wanted, but that the condition was living in the menu and that I only need to discover it and allow him to take me all the way, no matter where I am. That’s exactly the hardest part of the journey.

At the concert I was talking about, there was a person on the scene whose gender should not be discussed at all. Strange, is not it? At the same time, he has chin and shoes on the stylus, but he can do it because he is free from sex. You wonder what this means?

They say when we get rid of earthly lessons, our body becomes irrelevant, and with it and our sex, because we have overcome it. I just read about it, but I’ve never seen it. This guy, in fact, because of everything I said I would call him a deer in one of his poems, spread the joy of the scene on which he was, and this is evidence that he is just such, released. Being happy means being free.

The concert was unusual. Rarely when one can see in a place so many people who are gathered around one, and that is love, caused by the happiness of a person’s smile. Although his occurrence is not everyday in these frail areas, both the old and the young have shone with the same energy that the deer spread, and that was love. They were love. Being happy means giving love.

There were exceptions, though in a huge minority. A younger couple was sitting close to me. He played the games on the phone all the time during the concert, spilled anger on his date and occasional screamed commenting on Jelence`s  look. For a moment, I wondered how much an idiot someone must be to behave so much and abused himself. This man is a tormented soul who, because of his misery and darkness, opposes himself to someone and does not notice how much love and light this person illuminates with him. That unfortunate man was blinded by his limitations that he was telling him: do not look, you might like it, and if you like something that “abnormally” falls you from the head of the crown of masculinity and your normality that you barely perceived. The man was captured in his darkness staring at his phone, far from the liberation that was celebrated on the scene.

Ancient teachings say that the liberation is the goal of everyday life and incarnation, the damage to his soul that is so far from it. Fortunately my thoughts flew very quickly to freedom led by beautiful energy from the scene.

Who then is normal, this “abnormal” or this with a socially accepted mask “I’m normal”?

Very close to me, two girls were dancing in so much enthusiasm that they did not cover their attachment to each other, but how to resent them when it is pure love and nothing matters in it. The liberation that spread from the scene has ruined all barriers and limitations. One of the boys and grandmothers, they played like children. There was a lot of happy world that night in one place.

I remember the picture I saw in a temple in India, Shiva and Shakti as one person, united in peace and tranquility. They say that when we reach this unification of the male and female aspects of ourselves, we will be free from serving in this dark energy of re-birth in suffering, which they say is the earthly life and be in full harmony and beauty with the Source.

The younger ones had no life at all, through the pain of their lives they passed in childhood so that in their youth, through the song, they found their smile in which love was seen. And right here at the corner I saw the united Shiva and Shakti dance in their tantric dance on the stage.

They say when we can shake the shame of ourselves, discomfort and frustration towards our own imperfection and life, and we dance inward with our whole being without shame, so that we can get rid of the sting of karma.

Jelenče demonstrated the perfect dance unconnected with his own limitations, even the man who played the games on the phone on several occasions started to kick his leg. Everyone present wished to dream that they had never done so far and that’s what they did. Jelenče was playing as an ecstatic as the most sensual girl in the dress, but also as a real cheerful young man in a men’s suit. Hechanged clothes, but did not let his smile and glow in his eyes.

Although I sing traditional Balkan music, I have to say that somebody who does this works maestrally, just because it works from a heart led by love. His specific color of the voice is also freed from sex, from age and youth, from technique and genre, it is its own and freely.

They say that the one who sat on the right side of God and was closest to him, had one virtue of all the councils, which was singing. They say that when he sang, those who listened to him forgot about problems and became love, beauty and compassion. I felt it at this concert. I was a love.

The Jelence’s body is completely embellished with various symbols, all cultures and religions, but again it is liberated from all religions and cultures. We do not pray to God, but we celebrate it, because God is not there somewhere, but already here, and it does not look like this or anyway, and certainly not because He is love.

Tesla once said when asked if he believed in God: I do not believe in God who is described by all known religions, but I know that he exists. I saw it and I experienced it. If I have to describe it physically, it is light, and if I want to describe it the way I felt it, it is love, beauty and compassion.

I saw the light in the eyes of all those who were in the concert and felt these three states, and brought them with me.

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What Is Happiness?

Happiness is the subject of obsessions of all people from time to time. Often elusive and inexplicable, the thought of happiness is present in everyday life, each of us would like to admit it or not.

Happiness is when something is nice and good -the woman who came to me told me complaining about the lack of happiness.

What does it mean? And what’s good? What did you compare with and on what basis did you declare that another ugly or bad?

You’re confusing me with your questions – said the woman.

Happiness is a phenomenon that largely determines the quality of our lives and for which each one of us strives and shapes his life in search of her. And do we actually know at all what she is?

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