“I’m so upset. My daughter gave me a key to her place to water the plants while she’s away. I watered her pelargoniums, and tidied up a bit – the place was a mess, really. She got back from her trip today, and immediately started arguing with me for, as she put it, having messed up with her things and rearranging everything my way. She always attacks me, and I always come off worst,” a women approximately my mother’s age was telling me through tears.
“If you blame others for your failures, you are a victim, and no victim can be a winner.” Continue reading “Playing the Victim – The Most Comfortable Role”
